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# A BRIGHTER DAY.LIFE

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- [A Brighter Day on the Other Side of the Holidays](https://abrighterday.life/a-brighter-day-on-the-other-side-of-the-holidays/) - Years ago, Dr. Robert Schuller stood in front of a room full of Iowa corn farmers who had just lived through their worst crop in memory. He wasn't there to talk about weather patterns or commodity prices. He was there because those farmers needed something to hold onto, and he knew it. In his big
- [Rules That Built the Grocery Industry — And Still Run It – 250 years later!](https://abrighterday.life/rules-that-built-the-grocery-industry-and-still-run-it-250-years-later/) - As we celebrate America’s 250th Anniversary on July 4th this year – I wanted to tie in 250 years of grocery retail, the lessons of The 5 Rules through the lens of one of my favorite shows – “Food that built America” on the History Channel. Having sold groceries for over 50 years now in
- [3 words more important than “I Love You”](https://abrighterday.life/3-words-more-important-than-i-love-you/) - The core leadership lesson here is that three simple words—“I appreciate you”—are more powerful and transformative than “I love you” when it comes to building trust, safety, and performance in relationships and teams. In a 2026 grocery world shaped by tight margins, omnichannel shopping, AI tools, and value‑seeking customers, making “I appreciate you” a daily
- [A Call for Civility](https://abrighterday.life/a-call-for-civility/) - A Call for Civility I’m asked all the time this one question; “What’s the biggest challenge you see in our world today?”. My answer is what I see and hear (or don’t see) in business, in politics, in families, and in life over-all as the biggest element of how the world could be a better
- [Lessons from Lou Holtz](https://abrighterday.life/lessons-from-lou-holtz/) - Leadership Principles for Grocery Leaders Leadership wisdom often comes from unexpected places. One of the most respected leadership voices in American sports is Lou Holtz, who we lost in March, is the legendary college football coach known for turning struggling programs into championship teams. While his career unfolded on football fields rather than grocery
- [BE THE LEADER PEOPLE WANT TO WORK FOR](https://abrighterday.life/be-the-leader-people-want-to-work-for/) - In a world full of noise, the leaders people trust most are the ones whose actions match their words People do not follow titles for long. They follow credibility. They follow consistency. They follow leaders whose behavior makes trust possible. In an age when culture is tested daily, the enduring leadership principle is surprisingly simple:
- [Leadership, Math, and the Power of Perspective](https://abrighterday.life/leadership-math-and-the-power-of-perspective/) - The leadership lesson this month is part math lesson and part perspective lesson. It’s one of those ideas that, once you truly see it, permanently changes how you think about the grocery business. You may even look back later and realize it was one of those moments that quietly—but decisively—turned the tide in your leadership
- [Prime Time](https://abrighterday.life/4906-2/) - PrimeTime Defined Leaders who consistently win understand one simple truth: performance is never evenly distributed across the day, the week, or the year. Some moments matter more than others, and what a team does in those windows separates average operations from extraordinary ones. What Is “PrimeTime” In Leadership? In operations-heavy environments, “PrimeTime” is the
- [Coach to Behaviors, and the Numbers Will Follow](https://abrighterday.life/coach-to-behaviors-and-the-numbers-will-follow/) - In nearly every leadership conversation today, the focus always drifts to numbers. Sales numbers. Productivity and labor numbers. Engagement scores. Turnover rates. Market share. Numbers matter—but they are not where great leadership begins. When leaders obsess over numbers, they often miss the deeper truth: numbers are outcomes, not causes. The most effective leaders understand a
- [Grocery Retail Industry Luminary Stephen D. Black Joins RSA America Advisory Board](https://abrighterday.life/grocery-retail-industry-luminary-stephen-d-black-joins-rsa-america-advisory-board/) - CHICAGO — RSA America, a leading digital transformation and innovative retail technology partner for independent grocers, announces the addition of Stephen D. Black to its esteemed Advisory Board. With an impressive career spanning over 40+ years in conventional and natural/organic grocery retail, Steve has spearheaded numerous executive and strategic capacities across diverse grocery business groups.
- [What’s it Like to be on the Other Side of Me?](https://abrighterday.life/whats-it-like-to-be-on-the-other-side-of-me/) - Listen to the excerpt on kindness from The 5 Rules. Get your copy here. Understanding kindness truly begins with self-awareness, a lesson I learned from Dr. Randy Ross, a keynote speaker and author of the bestselling book, "Relationomics." Dr. Ross emphasized the importance of feedback in our personal and professional lives through his experiences raising
- [Enhancing Workplace Communication with the Drive-Thru Method](https://abrighterday.life/enhancing-workplace-communication-with-the-drive-thru-method/) - Listen to the excerpt on no surprises from The 5 Rules. Get your copy here. Effective communication is the lifeblood of any successful business. It's a two-way process involving a sender, a message, a medium, a channel, a receiver, a response, and feedback. However, having these elements alone isn't enough. What's crucial is the cooperation
- [Civility, Where Have You Gone?](https://abrighterday.life/civility-where-have-you-gone/) - Listen to the excerpt on no surprises from The 5 Rules. Get your copy here. Civility, where have you gone? It seems like drama has invaded our meeting rooms, taking a seat right alongside us and dropping emotional bombs left and right. The toxic cultures prevalent in many workplaces today make it hard to remember
- [Winning with Kindness](https://abrighterday.life/winning-with-kindness/) - Listen to the excerpt on no surprises from The 5 Rules. Get your copy here. In the high-stakes game of retail, where choices abound, and competition is fierce, kindness emerges as the ultimate trump card. It's more than just a feel-good sentiment; it's a powerful business strategy that can transform customer loyalty and brand
- [The Interplay Between Drama and Relationship Fulfillment](https://abrighterday.life/the-interplay-between-drama-and-relationship-fulfillment/) - Listen to the excerpt on drama and happiness from The 5 Rules: The impact of drama on relationship happiness cannot be overstated. Thankfully, the growing conversation around mental health wellness offers valuable insights into enhancing our mental well-being. As parents, prioritizing our children's mental health is crucial. My wife and I often reflect on our
- [after your last breath](https://abrighterday.life/after-your-last-breath/) - Listen to the Epilogue from the audiobook of The 5 Rules: My dad found out on his seventy-sixth birthday, April 30, 2013, that he had small cell lung cancer. The doctors thought they could treat it relatively easy and that he’d have no long lasting effects of the disease. He hadn’t smoked in over
- [A special thank you to my favorite veteran, my dad](https://abrighterday.life/a-special-thank-you-to-my-favorite-veteran-my-dad/) - A special thank you to my favorite veteran, my dad He carries moments and memories of long ago that feel just like yesterday. How do I know? Because certain images or words will trigger him and immediately, he will say something in a voice so soft, I hardly recognize it. I’ll look at him intently,
- [Investing in Employee Development & Team Culture](https://abrighterday.life/investing-in-employee-development-team-culture/) - Alliance Retail Group: Investing in Employee Development & Team Culture -Through "5 Rule Friday" Recognition Background Alliance Retail Group (ARG) is the premier self-negotiating grocery ad group in the United States. With a history of solid growth and a clear vision of the future, ARG has established itself as a trusted partner for retailers to
- [Find Your Mountains](https://abrighterday.life/find-your-mountains/) - Find Your Mountains! July Leadership Blog "The Mountains are calling and I must go," The infamous line by John Muir rings true for any mountain lover. Whether you are a skier/snowboarder, a hiker, or a mountain biker... Whether you climb 14ers in Colorado, just enjoy 4-wheeling all the passes, or camp in the Tetons... you
- [Stephen D. Black Joins the Maxwell Leadership Certified Team](https://abrighterday.life/stephen-d-black-joins-the-maxwell-leadership-certified-team/) - Colorado, September 20, 2023 -- Stephen (Steve) D. Black, a 45-year veteran of the retail grocery industry, has become an independent certified coach, teacher, trainer, and speaker with the Maxwell Leadership Certified Team. This elite group of professionals is united around one common goal: to develop leaders who want to create powerful, positive change in
- [The Harmful Effects of Gossip: How to Reduce Drama in Your Life](https://abrighterday.life/the-harmful-effects-of-gossip-how-to-reduce-drama-in-your-life/) - Take 5: The Harmful Effects of Gossip: How to Reduce Drama in Your Life Gossip - a word that has a way of making people feel uncomfortable. Whether it's through the grapevine or water-cooler talk, gossip creates an environment that is not only harmful but also damaging to our relationships. It's a widespread issue that
- [Life Lessons on Doing Your Job](https://abrighterday.life/life-lessons-on-doing-your-job/) - Take 5: Life Lessons on Doing Your Job — Only Better! Discover the treasure trove of knowledge we shared every week from our upcoming book, The 5 Rules. We've distilled the wisdom gained from years of experience into bite-sized Take 5 posts that are both thought-provoking and actionable. Whether you're looking for ways to enhance
- [Key Factors That Separate Successful People and Being Kind](https://abrighterday.life/key-factors-that-separate-successful-people-and-being-kind/) - Discover impactful action steps and advice from The 5 Rules book that can change your life and positively impact the world around you. From creating a kinder workplace to spreading joy in your community, this is your guide to making a difference. Read on to learn more. We've been talking about three key factors that
- [Take 5: Enhancing Your Communication Skills](https://abrighterday.life/take-5-enhancing-your-communication-skills/) - Effective communication plays a vital role in cultivating healthy relationships, both in professional and personal settings. As someone who has experienced the benefits of good communication firsthand, I've compiled some invaluable tips that can help you too. Discover how to enhance your communication skills at work and in your personal life with these valuable insights.
- [What can pine trees teach us?](https://abrighterday.life/what-can-pine-trees-teach-us/) - As I was walking around my property here in the Rocky Mountains this week, all the trees are doing what they do every year. They grow! This was a pretty harsh winter with more than normal heavy snow, very high winds on multiple occasions, and some brutally cold temperatures. All legitimate reasons to stunt growth
- [Take 5: Importance of No Surprises](https://abrighterday.life/take-5-importance-of-no-surprises/) - Take 5: Importance of No Surprises Be the calm amidst chaos. As a leader, it's essential to remain composed and level-headed, even in the most turbulent times. Keep your cool when it comes to effectively coaching someone through ways to make a decision and how to handle when a "surprise" situation arises. Discover the power
- [The Laws of Harvest](https://abrighterday.life/the-laws-of-harvest/) - Take 5: The Laws of Harvest Through the changing of seasons, my thoughts turn to the Laws of Harvest. Throughout my career, I've encountered well-intentioned individuals who fail to understand that the world of business operates similarly. They hold meetings, initiate plans, and expect instant results. However, when those results don't materialize, disappointment sets in.
- [Raise Your Hand](https://abrighterday.life/raise-your-hand/) - In our fast-paced world, one of the biggest challenges we all face is knowing when to ask for help. In the business world, I've always said this: It's not a crime to have a problem, but it is a crime to have a problem and not raise your hand! I've been in companies with thousands
- [The 5 Rules](https://abrighterday.life/the-5-rules/) - Wouldn’t it be great if you could lock in on some simple life rules for success that you and your circle could easily understand and follow? Even better if everyone knew that those were the same rules you follow? AND – what if those rules could actually be applied in your home? In the last
- [above all else…..](https://abrighterday.life/above-all-else/) - I don’t believe you can talk about legacy without talking about what you believe to be the single most important teaching that you can give. King Solomon, from the Old Testament, was quoted for many things. He was the King of Israel from 970 BC to 931 BC. He was the second child of David
- [The 3 great separators](https://abrighterday.life/the-3-great-separators/) - Over my 45+ year career in the business, I’ve experienced what I call the 3 great separators when talking about traits that will almost guarantee success. These are the elements of change or critical personality traits that truly separate you from the crowd. It’s really about those that have a growth mind-set, versus a fixed
- [It doesn’t matter what you can do, it matters what you do](https://abrighterday.life/it-doesnt-matter-what-you-can-do-it-matters-what-you-do/) - This line was born while I was coaching my youngest son Travis in city league baseball in Altus, Oklahoma when he was 12 years old. I started coaching him when he was only 5 years old in city league basketball. Earlier that year his coach had the team of 5 year old’s trying to run
- [The 5 C’s of a difference maker](https://abrighterday.life/the-5-cs-of-a-difference-maker/) - If you were to ask any sports recruiter what they are looking for in a potential recruit, they’d tell you that they were looking for a difference maker. Someone that stands out in a crowd, makes the whole team better and ultimately, changes the outcome of the game. Over the years, I’ve known several difference
- [moments of inspiration….](https://abrighterday.life/moments-of-inspiration/) - There are those special people in our lives that anytime we’re around them or talk to them, you will experience a moment of inspiration. Talk about Intentional Legacy Building! They don’t plan it, they are just being themselves. My Uncle Charles Douglas Seigrist is that person for me. Stephen Douglas Black & Charles Douglas Seigrist
- [give your blessing…daily](https://abrighterday.life/give-your-blessingdaily/) - If you haven’t seen the Steve Jobs movie yet, let me just say, it’s pretty painful to watch. Being a huge Apple product disciple, it’s really amazing to me that Steve had such weak leadership skills. Sadly, in every area of his life. Steve Jobs – the movie Reverse images of the movie, “It’s a
- [the incredible power of these two words…](https://abrighterday.life/the-incredible-power-of-these-two-words/) - There are or will be times in your life that you simply don’t know how you’re going to make it through a situation. Either by choice or by circumstances, you’ll face something that you’ve never faced before. That is exactly what happened to me four months after I became CIO (Chief Information Officer) in 2012

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- [49 Years – 4.9 Decades – 17,897 Days](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/49-years-4-9-decades-17897-days/) - As we stood in front of a packed church in Clinton, Oklahoma in 1977 – on that day so many years ago holding hands and saying our wedding vows, little did I know then that it was not as much about the words that were being said (although they are very important) but the silent language of holding hands that was so significant.
- [Dear Younger Me: Five Rules That Will Change How You Lead and Live](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/dear-younger-me-five-rules-that-will-change-how-you-lead-and-live/) - Stephen D. Black – a Junior in High School and Now “In the picture above - it’s me as a junior in high school, sitting there with the older guy next to him is… also me—now a husband, father, pawpaw, and the author of a book called The Five Rules: Transform Your Culture for Yourself,
- [2025 Leadership Lessons in Review](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/2025-leadership-lessons-in-review/) - In my past life as President & COO at two different grocery chains, I would end every year with a year in review of all the leadership lessons I’d sent out that year for our teams to look back and recall each of the lessons. The value in this is keeping the lessons alive in
- [A Legacy of Gratitude and Leadership: Honoring  MY Uncle Charles Douglas Seigrist](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/a-legacy-of-gratitude-and-leadership-honoring-my-uncle-charles-douglas-seigrist/) - Thanksgiving is a season of gratitude, reflection, and intentional recognition of the people who have shaped our lives. As families gather around tables filled with food and laughter, we pause to remember not just what we are thankful for, but who we are thankful for. This year, my heart turns to one man whose life
- [The 5 Rules for Winning the Holidays with Your Team  and Your Customers!](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/the-5-rules-for-winning-the-holidays-with-your-team-and-your-customers/) - Since I’m now being introduced around the country as “The 5 Rules Guy”, I thought I’d just grab that and go with it for this month’s leadership article! The Holiday Challenge For all of us that are grocery retailers, November and December aren’t just regular months. They’re the two biggest sales months of the
- [Disruptive Kindness](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/disruptive-kindness/) - It’s been an interesting journey since publishing my book on The 5 Rules in January of 2024, and after speaking and coaching on these rules across many organizations since then, there has been one question that comes up on many occasions that I’d like to expand on for this month’s leadership teaching. But first, just
- [If You’re Gonna to be a Bear – Be a GRIZZLY!](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/if-youre-gonna-to-be-a-bear-be-a-grizzly/) - This saying is one of my earliest learnings on how to be successful. It was during my early years at United Supermarkets of Oklahoma where I spent the first 27 years of my career. I went from being a produce manager, assistant manager, store manager, and director of I.T. systems to head buyer and got
- [Lead like a National Park Guide](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/lead-like-a-national-park-guide/) - We recently were on a graduation celebration trip with our oldest grandson; Dax Graham Black where we toured the Mesa Verde National Park. We had two different guides take us through a couple of the main attractions there: The Cliff House and The Balcony House. I had this thought as they inspired and educated us
- [See Me - hear me - help me](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/see-me-hear-me-help-me/) - Below are two monumental pieces of information for those of us in the grocery business to consider in 2025 and beyond. U.S. grocery stores ad spend 2022-2023 In 2023, the grocery store industry in the United States spent 2.04 billion U.S. dollars on advertising, up from 1.94 million dollars a year earlier. That represents an
- [Mother’s Day Tribute](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/mothers-day-tribute/) - – Dedication to my mom for teaching me about a solid work ethic In the days of old when most children worked alongside their mom or dad, taking care of the house or farm chores or in other businesses, there were multiple moments in every single day that a good work ethic was learned, taught
- [Be a River, not a Reservoir](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/be-a-river-not-a-reservoir/) - Out of date leadership is associated with authority, decision-making, and control. However, the most effective and true leaders understand that their role is not to accumulate power for themselves but to channel it outward by empowering, inspiring, and serving others. This principle is best captured in this metaphor, Be a River, not a Reservoir. A
- [Continual Learnings from Cutting Firewood](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/continual-learnings-from-cutting-firewood/) - It was about twenty-five years ago, that I had an awesome idea. We lived in Oklahoma at the time and had always bought our firewood. Mesquite trees were an abundant nuisance to farmers that needed the land cleared to grow crops. Our boys were teenagers at the time, and it made sense to me that
- [Leading with a culture of  “Whispering Pines”](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/leading-with-a-culture-of-whispering-pines/) - We’ve lived in the Rocky Mountains for the last ten years. As we spend more time in the High Country and when I go on my daily walks or just sitting out on the deck enjoying the views of the snowcapped Rocky Mountains and the sea of green pine trees stretching as far as the
- [What is your rain](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/what-is-your-rain/) - What is your rain? As a part-time farm hand during the harvest seasons, the steps leading to the harvest itself are just as crucial as the end result. The turning of dirt, the sowing of each seed, and the rainfall from the sky all have effects on your harvest. So, what is your rain? Growing
- [Hope for Gain vs Fear of Loss](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/hope-for-gain-vs-fear-of-loss/) - In my life both in business and personal life I have found there are two reasons why people do something: they hope to gain something by doing it or they do something out of fear of losing what they have already achieved or received (have). In the way of communicating there lies a way to
- [Be a Buffalo](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/be-a-buffalo/) - Leadership Nugget by Jared Stephen Black
- [A special thank you and dedication to my favorite veteran, my dad.](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/a-special-thank-you-to-my-favorite-veteran-my-dad/) - He died as he had lived. Strong, resilient and no complaining. Affirming his love for us by word and deed. Until the very end. It was January 6, 2024 that our family hero and warrior fought his last fight, took his last breath and met his creator. Our world became dimmer and life as we
- [Adding Leadership Gold – one nugget at a time](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/adding-leadership-gold-one-nugget-at-a-time/) - Gathering nuggets
- [why she was the best teacher I ever had....](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/why-she-was-the-best-teacher-i-ever-had/) - I believe that everyone has that ONE teacher that changed them. Believed in them. Encouraged them. Helped them to believe in themselves, maybe for the first time. That ONE teacher for me was my Jr. High & Sr. High English teacher, Mrs. Sarah C. Turney. Melanie and I have remained in contact with Mrs. Turney’s
- [lessons from cutting firewood ....](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/lessons-from-cutting-firewood/) - About eighteen years ago – I had an awesome idea. My boys were teenagers and we’d always bought firewood. It made sense to me that we could cut our own and actually make money. I did some research on chainsaws, bought one, an extra chain, gas can, 2-cycle and chain oil and gloves.
- [Standin on "G", Waitin on "O"](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/standin-on-g-waitin-on-o/) - One of my key components of success is a serious sense of urgency. Just like in the Olympics, those that win the medals have a serious sense of urgency. They are always looking for something that can give them that .001 percent advantage over their competition.
- [If you’re gonna be a bear, be a grizzly!](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/if-youre-gonna-be-a-bear-be-a-grizzly/) - This saying is one of my earliest learnings on how to be successful. It was during my early years at United Supermarkets of Oklahoma where I spent the first 27 years of my career. I went from being a produce manager, assistant manager, store manager, director of I.T. systems to head buyer and got to
- [about your name....](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/about-your-name/) - What you come into this world with….your name. What you leave this world with…..your name. What you do between entry and exit will determine your legacy. You have a legacy now. Most people think you have to be a certain age before you can have a legacy or even have passed away.
- [Legacy’s Biggest Influence – Work Ethic](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/legacys-biggest-influence-work-ethic/) - In the days of old when every child worked along side their mom or dad, taking care of the house chores or all around the farm, there were multiple moments in every single day that a good work ethic was learned, taught and lived. Those days are over.
- [5 Keys to a successful marriage...](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/5-keys-to-a-successful-marriage/) - With Melanie, her sister (Melissa) and our two daughter-in-laws (Beth & Sarah) being in Hawaii this week for a time of relaxation and fun, it’s made me reflect on our trip to Hawaii in 1997 for our 20th anniversary. This is Beth & Sarah’s first time to see Hawaii, Melissa’s second, with no family responsibilities
- [You Gotta Be In The Room!](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/you-gotta-be-in-the-room/) - Today’s Rocky Mountain Gold leadership lesson happened on my walk this morning and it reminded me about a lesson the Maxwell Team teaches us; “You gotta be in the room”. (view from my walk) That teaching is that the best way to grow in your influence and to grow as a leader is by being
- [What You Can See](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/what-you-can-see/) - We had some crazy fog roll in on Thursday and Friday this week and it was completely cleared up by Saturday. My morning walks on Thursday and Friday were very scary from the dense fog and I also had an unbelievable hard time seeing what was around me and it blocked the beauty of the
- [5 Traits of a Good Boss](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/5-traits-of-a-good-boss/) - Most of my writings have been about the positive influences in my life over the years. And one of my bosses early in my career told me that I would learn more from bad bosses than the good ones. I thought it was a good one liner at the time. And however, little did
- [New Year – A Fresh Start!](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/new-year-a-fresh-start/) - A new year always brings a fresh start and renewed motivation and hope. Hope for many areas of our lives to get better. Hope that most of the impacts from COVID are behind us. Hope that the employment situation will calm and turn in the right direction. Hope for our businesses to stabilize and we
- [Winning the Holiday](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/winning-the-holiday/) - If you’re going to win the holidays in our business – you must have a team full of difference makers. As we all know – December is our busiest month of the year, and this year is one of the shortest time frames (27 days) between Thanksgiving and Christmas that we’ve had since pre-COVID days.
- [Thanksgiving Celebration & The Laws of the Harvest](https://abrighterday.life/leaderships-lessons/thanksgiving-celebration-the-laws-of-the-harvest/) - Thanksgiving, as we know it today, is rooted in a harvest feast celebrated by the Pilgrims and the Wampanoag in 1621. This marked a moment of giving thanks for a successful harvest after a tough year. The Pilgrims, who had settled at Plymouth Rock, were ill-prepared for the harsh New England winter. They suffered from

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