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Melanie Said What?!

A little sass. A lot of heart. A lifetime of wisdom.

  • Faith
  • Family
  • Grocery life
  • Life lessons
Melanie Roll Black, smiling, resting her chin on her hand
A note from Steve

That's my Melanie. My favorite person in the world.

We've all heard the saying, "Behind every successful man stands a good woman." Well, in my case, she's been beside me all along. Through the good times, the rough times, and the times I probably thought I had things figured out, she's been there. Loving me, believing in me, and always being faithful to tell me the truth. Not just what I wanted to hear, but what I needed to hear.

Over the years, some of my best lessons haven't come from a book, a boardroom, or a leadership conference. They've started with, "Honey, let me tell you something…"

It only makes sense that our A Brighter Day / 5 Rules community gets to hear from her, too. I've had the privilege of learning from her for over 50 years, and now it's your turn. This is where she'll share her stories, her heart, and a few of her observations about life. I suspect you'll see pretty quickly why she's my favorite.

Welcome to "Melanie Said What?!" You're going to love her. I sure do.

SteveSteve Black · Author of The 5 Rules

4th grade

Where she met Steve, in a little Oklahoma town called Arapaho.

1977

The year they married, and started writing their own love story.

3 + 6

Three wonderful children and six grandchildren, who bring more joy (and more chaos!).

~50 yrs

Of grocery life. Holidays are workdays, and weekends are a rumor.

Melanie's other talent

Melanie Played What?!

Pull up a pew. A few of Melanie's favorite hymns and songs, played by Melanie on the piano.

Melanie Roll Black playing It Is Well on the piano
Now playingIt Is Well

Tonight's set list5 pieces · piano solo

Watch the whole playlist on YouTube
Pull up a chair

What we'll talk about (and just about anything else).

The funny stories. The hard lessons. The blessings. The mistakes. And yes, every now and then, an opinion or two.

Faith

Knowing Who to lean on when life isn't easy, and the moments God showed up right on time.

Family

Family is everything, even when family life gets a little messy.

Marriage

A love story that started in an Oklahoma classroom. Not always easy, always an adventure.

Grandchildren

More joy than we ever imagined, and occasionally more chaos.

Groceries

Fifty years of grocery store adventures, and the families behind the people who run them.

Getting older

A good laugh can get you through a hard day. So can saying what's on your mind.

A new post every month

Save her a seat all year long.

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Got a question for Melanie?

Marriage, grandbabies, holiday chaos, faith on a hard day… send it in. She just might answer it in a future post.

Ask Melanie
The Black family of writers

Three generations. One set of rules.

Melanie joins Steve, author of The 5 Rules, along with their sons Jared and Travis and grandson Dax, who write their own lessons on living the rules at work and at home.

Jared, Travis and Dax Black
Jared, Travis & Dax